Missing intimacy & feeling lonely in your relationship?
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Rediscover yourself & your partner on a 6-week Love Quest journey 
— experience affection in a relationship you didn’t know existed

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I’m feeling lonely in my relationship

You’re longing for that deep, exciting connection.
For a loving partner that keeps choosing you every day.

You want to be fully seen, understood and appreciated.
You want to feel safe and to be your authentic self.
You want that deep intimacy, affection and passion.
You want to be excited about each other like you used to be.

Maybe that’s what it felt like in the beginning, but somewhere along the way things have changed. Maybe it became harder to love unapologetically — without pain, blame or bitterness. 

Life gets in the way with all its duties, responsibilities and predictable routines. There is pressure and grind. There are children, then there’s an empty nest.

You talk less. You laugh less. You touch less.

You’re together, yet alone.

What went wrong? Can we still fix it?

The reason why relationships are complicated is because they run so damn deep. They trigger us like nothing else. They poke our unhealed childhood wounds and feed the demons of anxious attachments.

Do we need to accept it as “a typical path” for all relationships — or is it possible to break these destructive patterns? 

Is it possible to return to that state where you crave each other like crazy? Where you come back home to each other — to laugh, make love and feel like you can conquer the world together?


You could create a relationship that’s a life-long journey of intimacy and desire — you just have to put in the work. 

And, since (unfortunately!) they don’t teach that stuff at schools, it’s only normal to seek professional support and guidance.  

So what’s really stopping you from getting help? 

“Yes, BUT…”

• Shouldn't we be able to solve our relationship problems ourselves?
• We've tried different things, but so far nothing has changed.
• My partner is totally NOT open to this sort of thing…
• We have such busy lives that we hardly have time to eat — no time to fluff around.
• True love should be effortless and come naturally, right?
• Things aren't THAT bad between us (I guess..?)
• Errrm, what will others think? Will they judge us? It’s embarrassing.
• I assumed the only constructive help would be going to an in-person couples therapy, but it’s so expensive!
• What if we grow apart because getting help will make us realise we’re actually a horrible match?

Do any of these sound familiar?
Sorry to be brutally honest, but this narrative is exactly what has been stopping you from having that dream relationship you’re longing for.

Until now, hopefully

Find hope in your Love Quest

Obviously, each relationship is different and has its own challenges. Yet, as psychologists have observed, there are certain patterns and behaviours that are present in almost every relationship crisis.

The Love Quest is an online program created by a certified couples therapist and intimacy couch, who many years ago used the exact same tools to save her own relationship. 

It’s based on a simple 7-step method that will guide you through the process of rediscovering yourself and your partner, understanding each other’s patterns — and being able to transform your relationship. No matter the current circumstances. 

Whether you’ve been together for 3 or 30 years, struggling with new or old challenges — every crisis can be an opportunity for a break-through, not a break-up.

You’ll discover tools that will not only empower you, but will also allow you to create a lifelong journey of intimacy, desire and profound connection. To build a partnership where both of you feel understood, appreciated and adored

Where both of you will feel fully alive

If all of this moved something in you — if it gave you hope — then welcome to The Love Quest.

'The Love Quest has given me the tools to rediscover my husband'

I rediscovered my husband, rediscovered my love for him and got to know him in a completely different way. It also makes me want to re-examine intimacy. I now feel safe and appreciated enough to want to go into this together.

♥ Sandra Bouwman

'It feels like the Love Quest saved our relationship'

We are very grateful for the Love Quest program! It has already brought us so much within 3 weeks! We talk more, are more open to each other and laugh more.

♥ Iris en Peter

'Her whole being radiates love and connection'

To say yes to Emanuela's loving magical guidance is to say yes to entering a world beyond feeling, where it has no words. Being present together in that field was very healing. To be able to be special with each other, to be with the other and to feel the embrace and nurturing of Emanuela.

♥ André & Esther

What will change in your life

♥  Communication: how to read each other's “subtitles” and understand what is not being said.
♥  Conflicts: how to argue to actually connect on a deeper level, instead of getting into a destructive power play.
♥  Self-awareness: how to become aware of your own patterns that are getting in the way.
♥  Intimacy: how to (re)ignite the fire in your sex life & deepen the emotional intimacy.
♥  Trust: how to (re)build rock-solid understanding & reliable connection, even when the trust has been damaged.
Fun: how to create and nurture a deep, authentic connection that gets you high on love & life.
Insights: learn from the past mistakes and “love secrets" of your program host & therapist, Emanuela Deyanova.

Meet your host & therapist

A highly sought-after relationship expert, a certified marriage and family psychotherapist, Emanuela Deyanova’s trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Imago Therapy and is the in-house relationship expert at 365 Dagen Successful.

Over the past decade, Emanuela has had the honour of teaching thousands of people — online and offline — from all corners of the globe to create conscious, loving partnerships and to realize the higher potential their connections hold for their health and happiness.

She’s also an international speaker & bestselling author of  “Oneindige liefde” (“Infinite love”) which has already been translated into 4 languages. Thanks to her multi-cultural background, she can understand various cultural nuances and mindsets on a much deeper level, while being able to counsel in four languages in her private therapy practice in Amsterdam.

The Love Quest is NOT your typical online course

The Love Quest has been designed with busy couples in mind. It will gradually reveal new tools and insights, without overwhelming you with too many things at once:

♥ The core of the program — video sessions — have been prerecorded, so you can watch them when it’s convenient for you. Each session is short yet impactful — on average 5 to 10 minutes — making it easy to fit into your daily schedule.

♥ You’ll also participate in 12 monthly live Q&A sessions with Emanuela — this is when you can ask all the burning questions and share your breakthroughs. But there will be someone else supporting you on top of it…

♥ The beautiful online community of fellow students, each showing up with their own challenges, lessons and stories. You’ll be there to motivate, inspire and support each other as you transform and grow together.

♥ To get the momentum going and motivate you to create change, you’ll initially go through the program over 6 weeks. You’ll keep access to the course and the platform for a year, so you can refresh and strengthen everything you’ve learnt. 

Bonus when you join today

Because we truly want you to succeed on this journey – and ultimately, that does take two – we’re offering you a very special gift today:
When you join the Love Quest now your partner can join too – 100% free of charge!

One of Emanuela’s favourite tools. It ensures that things continue to flow at home and between the two of you, and that practical matters are properly arranged. It also bring more excitement, intimacy, and fun!

In this ebook, that you receive as a gift from us, we share four golden rules with you. They are presented in the form of small practical examples. Each one ends with an exercise that we highly recommend doing. (And in case you were wondering: yes, we do these exercises ourselves too!)

€ 700 - € 397

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This is a one-time amount. You get unlimited access for 1 year, also to the community and the monthly live Q&A.

“Love Quest is such a powerful program, where you really learn to grow together and to own your stuff in a relationship. Above everything else, it makes you a better person and partner.”

♥ Andre Nijzink

“The Love Quest is a beautiful journey to take together. You build a deep connection and learn new insights on how to really be with each other. How to step out of the daily grind and be fully open again.”

♥ Bianca Spijkerman

“The Love Quest gave us the tools to see and understand each other again. It helped us cross that bridge of connection, step by step. It gifted us with liberation from frustations and with deeper connection through understanding.”

♥ Esther Buijs

Explore the Love Quest

Embark on a 6-week journey to ignite passion, connection, intimacy and fun

The Curriculum

Connection is the foundation of intimacy and love. Without it, we are not in a relationship at all. That’s why the first week is all about reconnecting with your partner.

You will learn:

– how to (re)connect and communicate your love to your partner.
– the various ways in which we give and receive love and how your partner may understand and receive love in a different way than you do.
– the importance of rituals and how they can deepen your connection.

You will also start with a challenge to boost your connection that involves learning about the three pillars that sustain any love relationship.

The second week is all about unraveling some of your subconscious patterns in relationships. We will dive into the cyclic nature of relationships and I will show you how we constantly move through 7 stages.

You will learn:

– that there is no beginning and no end in relationships.
– why pain, crisis and disconnection are opportunities to grow.
– how to move through the “ceilings” and “walls” we hit in our relationships.
– how to practice speaking your truth.
– why vulnerability is essential for any relationship to thrive
– how to create a safe environment to be emotionally naked with each other.

During the third week we focus on communication on a very deep emotional level. It is time for healing. Through Image therapy and EFT you will get in touch with your deepest (unexpressed) emotions.

You will learn:

– how to turn a (near) break-up into a breakthrough.
– how curiosity can help you move through a crisis.
– how to cross the bridge to each other’s world and create a sacred space for sharing.
– why certain things about your partner trigger you and vice versa
– which emotions you were not able to express in your childhood and why learning to express them safely is the key to your own healing and that of your relationship.

This week you’re given a beautiful and powerful correlating practice for you in store.

The fourth week is all about intimacy and sex. We’re diving into sexuality, play, foreplay, the feminine and the masculine; you’ll become a true love alchemist this week.

You will learn:

– what intimacy is and how to create it.
– why intimacy and sex are two different things, but intimacy can lead to sex.
– what attraction is and how it works.
– how attraction needs the opposite of what love needs.
– how the feminine works in sexuality and how is this different from the masculine.
– how “no desire to have sex” is actually an invitation to step out of the comfort zone and redefine sex over and over again.

You will discover the break and the gaspedal in sex and intimacy and how to use them – the practices will be juicy.

This week is all about the most important relationship of all: the one you have with yourself.
In long-term relationships we often either lose ourselves or are not connected to our needs enough.
Knowing how to tap into your emotions and use them for guidance is the key again.

You will learn:

– how to rediscover your own unique strengths and realise how special you are.
– that you can only realise your needs through your feelings.
– how to get more clear on those needs by tapping into your emotions.
– that forgiveness is liberating and gives you and your partner the freedom to reconnect and heal.
– how to forgive yourself and your partner.

We’ll have some powerful forgiveness exercises for you this week that also help you understand the importance of gratitude on this journey.
And as a bonus, you’ll get a powerful inner child meditation. Plus, we’ll create a plan to boost your emotional immune system.

What’s your ultimate vision for your relationship? During our last week together in this program, we’re building a plan for your extraordinary future together.

You will learn:

– how to create a vision for your relationship and turn that vision into an action plan.
– how to become a better listener and how that will transform your relationship.
– how to create a space to dream and share those dreams with each other.
– how to apply the “positive flooding dialogue” (Image therapy).
how to “seal the deal” and truly make a commitment to your relationship.

These six weeks may have finished, but you’re just getting started now. You will be left with a specific year theme to work on for the upcoming 365 days and weekly exercises to boost the levels of connection, intimacy and fun in your relationship.

Bonus of this last week: the masculine and feminine meditation which helps you deepen your connection with each other time after time.

Become part of the powerful Love Quest Tribe

A big part of the Love Quest experience is your community. Nothing is more powerful than a tribe of like-minded people, uplifting each other on a shared journey of growth. Your community keeps you motivated. It holds you accountable and keeps you on track. Plus, it’s just a lot more fun to be in this together

Insightful and spectacular exercises

Knowledge without action is useless. That’s why you will learn a number of proven methodologies that you can continue to apply long after the program has finished.

Expect impactful exercise like the mirror conversation, the languages of love and “El Commandante” (that one is for the bedroom ;)).

These practices are not always comfortable – but always educational. And above all: unforgettable.

Monthly live Q&A Sessions with Emanuela

Are you encountering any obstacles on your journey? Or are you looking for a different perspective on your situation to help you move forward? We got you covered:

The program is set up in such a way that you can always contact other participants with urgent questions. Just go to our online community and reach out to them directly.

Still left with questions after that? Don’t worry. You can ask Emanuela anything in the community forum.

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Frequently Asked Questions

You can follow the Love Quest in the user-friendly School of Love app. This app can be used on a mobile phone, tablet or computer. Follow the program where and when it suits you: at home on the couch or when you are on the go. You can complete the program at your own pace. You have 1 year access to the program.

The Love Quest consists of 6 modules. With eye-opening videos with Emanuela, meditations, inspiring background information and practical exercises, you will learn more about yourself and your partner and how to improve your relationship. The program leaves you with a concrete action plan to implement immediately.

You will receive all the information with your personal login details within one day.

The online training consists of 6 modules. Each module is built up in small, powerful steps. You can follow the training at your own pace in your own time. The duration of the training is about 6 weeks in which you are learning with us every day for about 15 to 20 minutes.

This way you can easily combine it with your busy life and in the meantime you ensure lasting transformation. If you don’t want to take a step every day? Then you can of course also take a slightly larger step once a week.

You will have access to this training for one year, so you decide when you start using it.

Do not panic! Even that the program is intended for people in a relationship, you can follow it without your partner and still benefit from it.

You can’t force anyone to do the work, but you can influence and inspire each other. By gaining more knowledge on how love ‘works’ you’ll rediscover the patterns and barriers which your partner finds difficult to cross.

Remember it takes two people for a relationship to exhist, but only one for it to change.

Do you have a question about this online program?

Send an email to info@schooloflove.com.

We will get back to you as soon as possible.